Are You In A Sexless Marriage?

In long-term relationships, sex can often end up on the back burner – behind work, children and the daily chores of living, resulting in a largely sexless marriage.

Unless both partners are completely happy with this arrangement, a low sex or sexless relationship can lead to deep resentment, distancing, cheating, and even break-ups and divorce.

Here’s how you bring the spark back.

A Tool to Guide You Back Into The Bedroom

While good communication can often help resolve relationship issues, these are usually not enough to get couples to feel desire for one another again. Or to come up with creative solutions to their sexless relationship.

Sex and relationship coaching can be a vital tool here to help you find your way into the bedroom again – particularly the experiential Somatica Method.

It puts you in a safe space where you can teach one another what you need, while respecting each other’s desires and boundaries. Coaching often helps you understand that good sex requires more than just good communication – it requires creativity, bravery, and playfulness to create a relationship where seduction, passion, and desire can grow and thrive.

How To Revitalize Your Low Sex or Sexless Marriage

Coaches often see sexless marriages in which one person has a much higher drive than the other quite often (and it’s not always men who have the higher drive).

While it is true there is small minority of couples who have found happiness in a sexless marriage, more often than not, either one of them or both are not content with the arrangement. Most couples however don’t realize that keeping sex alive means being proactive, communicative, and open to change and novelty.

A frequent complaint is, “We went to see a sex therapist who gave us homework that we never did, and then we just ended up quitting.” Simply talking about it has very little effect on people’s sexual connection.

To help this couple (and many others) find the spark again, sex coaches work experientially, with everything from kissing practice to communicating about their deepest fantasies. Communicating, however, is rarely enough. You have to practice with touch, tone of voice, and all the other seduction tools your coach gives you.

If you want to make your sex life last a lifetime, you can’t just shoot for “good enough” – you have to shoot for the moon, and create an atmosphere where there can be ongoing playfulness, passion and creativity.

What To Do Next:

• Take one of our Sex & Relationship Classes
• Book a session with a Certified Relationship Coach
• Read the books Making Love Real and Coming Together