How To Keep Sex in Long Term Relationships Alive

In our work, we talk to people all the time about the importance of knowing their desires and boundaries. It seems obvious why knowing one’s desires would be important – the more we know about what we want, the more likely we are to pursue self-affirming life experiences and enjoy and grow in our lives…

There is no one-size-fits-all relationship model that works for everyone. However – the more you consciously co-create your relationship, the more likely it is to last. Some people thrive in monogamy, and others in a more open agreement. If you’ve been wondering if open relationships can work for you, here’s a practical guide. Is an…

In long-term relationships, sex can often end up on the back burner – behind work, children and the daily chores of living, resulting in a largely sexless marriage. Unless both partners are completely happy with this arrangement, a low sex or sexless relationship can lead to deep resentment, distancing, cheating, and even break-ups and divorce….

If a relationship lasts long enough, it is inevitable that you will eventually experience The Gap – and the gap gets in the way of so much of happiness. Before we take a look at all the problems the gap causes and what we can do about it, we must first define it. What is…

If you think of boundaries as essential to love and intimacy, then offering a boundary is actually a gift. Unfortunately, usually when people share their boundaries, they feel like they are being selfish or will hurt their partner so they aren’t clear or they have waited and begun to build resentment and then theboundaries come out as harsh. Imagine the next…