How To Keep Sex in Long Term Relationships Alive

A queasy or shut down feeling in the body or anger are good signs that you feel someone is asking you to cross your boundaries, you are about to let your boundary be crossed or you have let your boundary be crossed. Please notice that we are not saying that someone is crossing your boundaries, but that you are letting your boundaries be…

In our work, we talk to people all the time about the importance of knowing their desires and boundaries. It seems obvious why knowing one’s desires would be important – the more we know about what we want, the more likely we are to pursue self-affirming life experiences and enjoy and grow in our lives…

If a relationship lasts long enough, it is inevitable that you will eventually experience The Gap – and the gap gets in the way of so much of happiness. Before we take a look at all the problems the gap causes and what we can do about it, we must first define it. What is…

You may not realize it – but you can indeed have it all. An open, communicative and balanced relationship, combined with a passionate, fulfilling sexual connection. How, you ask? With a little helper called sex coaching for couples. Sex coaches see it all the time their practice: women settling and shutting down. Men going through…

In long-term relationships, sex can often end up on the back burner – behind work, children and the daily chores of living, resulting in a largely sexless marriage. Unless both partners are completely happy with this arrangement, a low sex or sexless relationship can lead to deep resentment, distancing, cheating, and even break-ups and divorce….

There is no one-size-fits-all relationship model that works for everyone. However – the more you consciously co-create your relationship, the more likely it is to last. Some people thrive in monogamy, and others in a more open agreement. If you’ve been wondering if open relationships can work for you, here’s a practical guide. Is an…